the bed-wetting and shitting of a child ? 想著生下你來(lái)，我受盡了千辛萬(wàn)苦，說(shuō)不完的～，成日把你擔(dān)心兒來(lái)著。(《金瓶梅》五十九) I remember I suffered untold hardships after you were born. I had to worry about you all day long,to say nothing of your bed-wetting and shitting.