not be surprised by either favour or disgrace ? 有人以問(wèn)王右軍，右軍曰： “此君近～?！?劉義慶《世說(shuō)新語(yǔ)·棲逸》)Someone asked Wang Xizhi about him,and Wang replied，“This gentleman comes near to what Lao Zi meant by‘ not being surprised by either favour or disgrace. ’”