| 釋義 |
求全之毀qiú quán zhī huǐget blame (/reproach)while seeking perfection
? 有不虞之譽(yù)，有～。(《孟子·離婁上》) There are cases of praise which could not be expected,and of reproach when the parties have been seeking to be perfect.
? 既熟慣，便更覺(jué)親密；既親密，便不免有些不虞之隙，～。(《紅樓夢(mèng)》52)…and being closer had grown more intimate; but precisely because of this he sometimes offended her by being too demanding and thoughtfulness. |