put oneself in sb. else’s position; do unto others what one would do unto oneself; judge other people’s feelings by one’s own
? ～，可謂仁之方也已。(《論語·雍也》)To be able to judge of others by what is nigh in ourselves—this may be called the art of virtue.
能近取譬nénɡ jìn qǔ pì
譬：打比方。能夠拿自己就近作例子來比方別人。形容要替別人設身處地地著想，推己及人，將心比心。judge other people’s feelings by one’s own, put oneself in sb. else’s position, can explain by simple analogy